Sunday, September 27, 2009

Sad News

Yesterday I found out my sister Kindra who was about 2 weeks behind me in her pregnancy progress lost her baby on the 24th. This isn't the first time she has been through tragedy this year. She had a son named Carson Lee born on March 24th. He passed away from SIDS on May 30th. She is not married to the babies dad and although I don't believe that constitutes what makes a good mom, it does help to have that supportive partner in not only the baby's life but to be there to support the mom as well. When we found out she was pregnant again, everyone in my family had mixed feelings. We were worried if she was ready emotionally and psychologically so soon after loosing Carson. We also worried if the person who was the dad would be there for her, he does not have a good track record. I believe that things do have an explanation and although we may not know what they are we need to believe and have faith that God makes these decisions for a good cause. I know that Carson will never have to feel pain, sorrow or grief. I know that the baby she lost will never have to go through these things either. I also know they are in a better place and being taken care of by the best people. I also believe that God will bless her with another baby as soon as he believes she is ready emotionally and at a place in her life where she can take really good care of a baby.

The pictures I included are of Carson Lee. One by himself (about 5 weeks) One with me taken at Easter, and one with my sister Kindra and Carson.

For information on SIDS prevention click on the link http://www.sidsprevention.com/ and also http://www.cjsids.org/

1 comment:

  1. my heart is breaking for you and your family. i had no idea you had lost a nephew... there are no right words to say when someone so young and innocent loses their life so soon. all i can think is that maybe carson has a little brother or sister up in heaven keeping him company and watching down!

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